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Fisting. The word alone seems to instantly divide gay men into two camps. Those who do or are interested and those who don't. Some aren't interested and leave it at that. But others take a highly negative and critical view of those who do. I'm not sure how or why this attitude came about. Still, I suspect it is due to a view of fisting as inherently linked with an image of big hairy men in leather who swear, curse, and spit at each other. Hands are rammed in arses in scenes that are almost borde

It was going to be a tough week. The NGO where I work was going through its annual audit by an external finance company. Nothing out of the ordinary, but it is always a bunch of work that comes at the most inopportune moment for my job. I breezed in, and the auditors were already at their laptops in the conference room. Last year’s lead followed me to my office, already asking for reports and documents. I really wanted a coffee, check my email, and start MY day. Of course, she went on and said t